Ladies, Being Too Nice Won’t Save You

Nice girls are the perfect prey for narcissistic people, both in relationships and workplaces. Narcissists often gaslight and push the blame for their own actions onto women they view as weak.
10 Ways You’re Blocking Love From Your Life (Without Even Noticing That You Are)

You think everyone is like your ex. You think everyone is going to treat you the way your ex treated you or they will eventually turn out to be the same person. This mentality subconsciously stops you from giving someone a fair chance because in the back of your mind, you think that it’s only a matter of time before they break your heart.
I’m Really, Really Happy But I Still Miss You Like Hell

It doesn’t make you a failure to miss someone. And it doesn’t make the life you have without them any less bountiful, impressive or meaningful.
Just As Women Have The Right To Reject A Relationship, Men Have The Right To Reject A Friendship

This in response to the article, “Guys, Stop Complaining About The ‘Friend Zone’ And Just Be Happy To Have Friends.” Parts of this article are discussed on my weekly podcast, “Heart of the Matter,” which you can catch on SoundCloud…
32 Completely Irrational Things I Have Done In The First Week Of 2017 Due To My Anxiety

I’ve woken up in a panic because I thought my dog was dying when she was in fact, snoring.
I Was In Love With An Idea, Not You

I think I really loved it though. Us. The idea that we would actually make it. The idea that maybe, just maybe, you’d be the one to make my sadness disappear. The idea that I could love someone.
35 Guys Reveal The Quirky Little Traits That Make A Girl Extra-Sexy

“Women who look like they hate me. Like, obviously I don’t want them to actually hate me, but resting bitch face just does it for me.”
Alexa Told Me Where The Bodies Are Buried
You Are Your Problem, But You Are Also Your Solution

We can choose if we want to lay down and ask the world for pitty or if we are going to pick ourselves back up and keep moving forward.
Here’s What You’re Like In Relationships Based On Your Favorite ‘Friends’ Pairing

Monica And Richard: You have no interest in the commitment-phobic mess that is the modern dating scene.
33 Things That Are Wildly More Important Than How Hot He Is
15 Signs You’ve Gotten Used To Being Treated Like Shit

You don’t reveal your secrets anymore. You get screwed over every time you open up to someone, so you’ve closed yourself off. It’s better that way.
If You’re Confused Or Wondering How He Feels… Just Stop

I sat with a beer in my hand physically present but emotionally miles away. I think my dad saw the pain in my eyes as I watched everyone around me. Happier. Not faking it.
Read This If You Don’t Know ‘What’s Next’

Be patient with yourself. Give yourself credit for all that you have accomplished, and all that you are doing right this very second. Have faith, and have hope for your future self.
This Girl Asked Her BF For An Essay On Exactly Why She Should Suck His Dick — And He Came Through
To blow, or not to blow?
Find A Better Reason To Stay Up Until 2 AM

You’re staying up until 2 AM for the wrong reasons. Because you’re wasted. Because you’re heartbroken. Because you’re bored and lonely and scrolling through social media until you’re forced to surrender to sleep.
This Guy’s Creepy-Ass Photo Has The Entire Internet Arguing About What The F*ck It Is
Nobody can seem to agree on what this is.