Sometimes, being single really is for the best, because your heart is in the process of healing. Because you’re putting your energy toward working on yourself. Because you’re trying to get yourself back into a good, healthy place.
It’s hard to accept the connection you’ve built is only temporary.
A lack of effort will make your person feel unloved, unwanted, unappreciated.
You can’t stop yourself from thinking about him — but you can stop yourself from texting him.
You shouldn’t have been an asshole to someone you expected to stay.
Make her coffee to drink as soon as she wakes up.
Play the big spoon some nights — and the little spoon other nights.
Answer her texts in detail (instead of giving her one or two word replies).
You cannot start arguments about how they clearly don’t give a shit about you, simply because they aren’t showing you affection in the specific way you prefer affection.
You aren’t sure whether you’re completely wasting your time on this person or whether they simply need a little nudge. You aren’t sure whether you’re fighting for something worthwhile or something wasteful. You aren’t sure whether your heart has the right idea or whether you should start the healing process.