May God have mercy on our souls.
At the end of the day it all comes down to the relationship you have with yourself and if you can’t form a solid relationship there which should be the ground level for everything else in your life, anything you try and build on an unstable structure will crumble.
Blink and you miss a thousand things.
For me, dating is an entire world of anxiety. What do I wear? What if he takes me home? What if he kills me? What if I have nothing to say? Do I write notes in my phone for discussion topics? What if I choke and I die while he’s talking about his cute dogs to me?
GEMINI: You’ve never kept a dollar past sunset. You might not even have a bank account. You don’t know your credit score, and it may be lower than your IQ.
You are the best part of love because you understand me even when I don’t understand myself.
Whatever happens with this relationship, it isn’t your fault for being damaged.
I need to let them go. I need to let all that negativity go. And so do you. And after you do, please forgive yourself. You will never please everybody in this world. Not everyone in this world will love you. But at least you can love yourself.
One day you will back at those terrible experiences and be grateful it happened.
A Virgo is their own biggest enemy when it comes to moving on.
As a Leo you are a dreamer. You have a difficult time facing reality. And while you were off living in your own little world, life happened.
You deserve a guy that is willing to die for you.
Because while we all deserve a wonderful love, we also deserve more than selling ourselves short for whatever boy is texting you on a given weeknight.
Just because we don’t get the same types of job as those before us doesn’t mean we aren’t working hard and fulfilling our potential. Just because we don’t value home ownership or start a family as soon as we hit our twenties doesn’t mean we don’t desire a family or a loving relationship. Just because we’re more open about mental health doesn’t mean we’re weak. Just because we don’t abide by the same ideals as you doesn’t mean we don’t have ideals of our own.
Maybe the world needs us over analyzers in order to shift its own thinking and make people see beyond the horizon, or maybe they need us to believe in something that isn’t just a mirage. I think these side effects from a medicine that only the brave are willing to take, are set in our minds for a reason.
You deserve a love that lasts this time.
The events of Charlottesville have shown us all something, and that something is that Nazism is alive and well, right here in our home. Never mind the fact that World War II ended over 70 years ago and that millions of minorities were killed in one of the largest genocides in human history. The embers of that fire of hate and death never really went out, and fuel has been slowly poured on it ever since. It’s just now that we are noticing the embers have turned into a blaze.
Pisces: You’re driven. You’re smart. You’re passionate. Your talents shine through like no other.
Moving, as with most things in life, works better with intention and focus.
When we feel we are of use to something greater than ourselves we can access a deeper understanding of happiness.
A heartbroken Cancer doesn’t apologize for their feelings – they just allow themselves to feel sad in order to heal in a healthy way.
It seems like everyone has forgotten about the demise of House Targaryen and how Robert Baratheon became the Usurper. In a nutshell, The Dragon Queen’s claim to the throne is pretty weak, no matter how dominant her family line had been in the past.
No one would ever guess you have social anxiety. People with social anxiety never utter a peep, right? So, your 15-minute story definitely eliminates any possibility for you to be anxious. HAH, you wish! Little do those around you know, the constant chatter and jokes coming from you is far from an indication of confidence. More like the result of not being able to contain the disorganized mess that is your racing thoughts.
Find something to smile about. Anything. There are so many things. You’re alive.
I hate our timing. I hate how our timing never aligns. I hate how we never overlap. You’re always single when I’m taken and I’m always taken when you’re single.
Tinder: You meet him at the park. He has an adorable rescue dog you don’t know he borrowed from his friend. He made you chuckle three times and he’s cute in an obvious way, so why not go get a drink with him?
You might lay awake in bed at night and question every single thing about who you are. And how the HELL you even got here….
It’s empowering to feel trusted. It’s an acknowledgment that you think he’s a great guy. Jumping to negative conclusions, being paranoid or consistently doubting his intentions, on the other hand, is offensive to someone trying to earn your trust. He might just withdraw emotionally, because he can’t trust you to believe in him.
You find yourself wondering how the relationship became this bad because it never seemed this way early on. Sometimes a friendship can go south if you don’t see a person’s true intentions early on. You also could be doing something that allows the cycle to continue, so it’s always up to you to pay close attention the people you call friends. Choose wisely.
He calls those weaseling, once-on-their-knees-in-front-of-him, exes ‘friends’.
Dating is an enlivening and fulfilling experience that, even in itself, is worthy of some serious enthusiasm. Approach it like the adventure it is and allow yourself to feel the excitement of anticipation. Let go of any ‘rules’ you have surrounding that mythical perfect guy and date guys with traits you may not have considered before. Make dating a priority and, like everything else in life, you’ll soon reap the rewards of a proactive approach.
They’d warned her it would be hard
She’d get bruised and wounded and it’d hurt all over,
But that it’d all be worth it in the end.
At first I thought you were a joke. Now I have come to realize that there is nothing comical about you.
I couldn’t help wonder why I was so different to everyone else. Why did I not feel absolute bliss when I was at home with the kids? Why did I enjoy drinking wine with friends when I was away with work instead of wallowing in self-pity in my hotel room because I missed them so much?
She wants the games to end. She wants things to be simple again. She wants to be able to be herself around you like she used to do so easily. She wants to move on from this complicated limbo of almost’s and what if’s. She wants to know that you feel the same because she has absolutely no idea if you truly do anymore.
Things aren’t always as cut and dry as they should be. We don’t get the answers that we need to move on. Strings of our past sometimes find a way to tangle themselves with the ones of our future. Lingering feelings and unspoken words make living in the moment a lot harder than it seems.
If you don’t actually care don’t talk to her like your best friends then treat her badly.
Confidence may come in all shapes and sizes, but the underlying characteristic of any confident person is that they take care of their own and give them the power to one day take care of others. My friends taught me that.
SAGITTARIUS: Now we’re finally entering the Bitch Zone, and Sags can be some headstrong bitches. She will dig her heels in the ground until they get stuck there.
Is this actually OK????
“There’s nothing more surreal than watching mass murderers and rapists walk around freely, laugh about their crimes, be interviewed on television and then act out their crimes.”
The next time you climb inside of a car, be careful.
This is literally the cutest shit ever.
Because finally telling you that I love you very much meant having my heart broken, meant that I’m letting myself be weak, meant that I’m ready to accept rejection from you.
My parents never directly told us what love really is, how we should love, and even how it would feel to be loved, but, somehow, I learned about what love is and what it’s not. They are always leading by example, like they always do. Through the daily patterns of their love, from the biggest gestures to the littlest ones, I have known, seen, and felt love
“I was just chilling in the tent using a torch to read my book when all of a sudden the roof just starts bowing inwards. It came down 2/3 feet to the point where I had to lie down so it didn’t touch me. I was still pretty wasted, but I’m sure I saw 10 points pressing in right above my face, like someone was pushing it down with their hands.”
What was that about the eclipse???
You shouldn’t put a discount on yourself just because you don’t know your worth and you shouldn’t be okay with something just because everyone else seems to be okay with it.
I hope you come to terms with the brutality of this world and choose to forgive anyway. I hope you walk away from the pain with a smile on your face and in your heart.