Shahida Arabi
Graduate of Columbia and Harvard
Bestselling Author
Published Researcher
Shahida Arabi is a graduate of Columbia University and Harvard University. She is a published researcher on narcissism and the bestselling author of Becoming the Narcissist’s Nightmare: How to Devalue and Discard the Narcissist While Supplying Yourself, featured as a #1 Amazon Bestseller for 16 consecutive months after its release, and Power: Surviving and Thriving After Narcissistic Abuse, featured as a #1 Amazon Bestseller in Applied Psychology.
Her work has been featured on Salon, HuffPost, Inc., Bustle, Psychology Today, Healthline, VICE, NYDaily News and more.
Her latest book, The Highly Sensitive Person’s Guide to Dealing with Toxic People, is available in all major bookstores and has been translated into 16 languages. At Harvard, she conducted the first large-scale research study on PTSD and relationship partners with narcissistic and psychopathic traits.
In addition to being a high-traffic journalist featured on numerous popular magazines and websites as well as an internationally bestselling author, Shahida has eight years of extensive experience in marketing, content creation, editing, and bringing viral organic traffic for media brands and businesses across social media platforms such as Instagram, Facebook, TikTok, YouTube, and more. She is a sought after influencer and writer for brands related to wellness, psychology, health, education, and pop culture.
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Articles by
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People Who Seem ‘Generous’ But Are Actually Narcissists Display These 4 Subtle Behaviors
A researcher specializing in narcissism and psychopathy reveals the four behaviors that expose a seemingly “generous” person as a narcissist.
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4 Things Psychopaths Do In Romantic Relationships (That Empathic People Never Do)
A researcher specializing in narcissism and psychopathy reveals the four behaviors psychopaths engage in when in romantic relationships that give them away.
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Narcissists Fear These 4 Types of People (See If You’re One Of Them)
There are four types of people narcissists and psychopaths fear – are you one of them?
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Only Psychopaths Do These 4 Things In Relationships (People With Empathy Don’t)
How would you know if were in a relationship with a psychopath? A researcher specializing in narcissism and psychopathy shares the four tell-tale signs you may be dealing with a psychopathic partner rather than an empathic one.
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Stay Single Until You Find A Boyfriend With These 5 High-Value Traits (And Avoid Narcissists)
If you want to avoid narcissists and toxic people in dating, stay single until you find a healthy partner with these five high-value traits.
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7 INFJ Characters in Movies and TV (That Embody The Light and Dark Sides of This Myers-Briggs Type)
These characters in movies and television embody traits of the INFJ Myers-Briggs personality type, both the dark and light sides.
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9 ‘Sex and the City’ Quotes About Love That Will Change Your Dating Life As A Woman Forever
These Sex and the City quotes will change your dating life as a woman – you will never look at love, dating, sex, or marriage the same after this.
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4 Mental Chess Games Manipulative Narcissists Play In Dating (That Empathic People Never Do)
Chess is a game that is all about strategy, and one can’t help but notice that many of the same manipulation tactics narcissists play is all about strategy and mirrors some of the same strategies used in chess. Here are four psychologically manipulative tactics narcissistic people use in dating and relationships that can be compared…
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Real love and compassion aren’t about forgiving and forgetting your way through numerous transgressions, violations or betrayals. The most compassionate thing you can do for a toxic person is to hold them accountable for changing their harmful behaviors – and the most compassionate thing you can do for yourself is letting them go if they do not.”
Shahida Arabi, Power: Surviving and Thriving After Narcissistic Abuse
