Someone you fancy? Ask them out. Want to try a new education path or hobby? Do it. Have trouble with anxiety/self-worth/past crappy experiences? Get a good therapist and work on it. Your 20s are the time you get to figure out who you are.
Never wait around for a fuckboy to grow up; never wait around for a fuckboy to get his priorities straight. Focus on yourself.
If you’re not self-aware, if you’re unable to own up to your mistakes and say you’re sorry to your partner, then the relationship is never going to last.
We don’t snap out of denial one day, we slowly come out of it in phases, and eventually, we arrive at acceptance that we weren’t happy before.
A Taurus and Gemini relationship will come with a lot of miscommunication and complications and little to no love or tenderness.
“Party time” “My great aunt woke up in the middle of the night, she heard her dog making these low growls. She was single at the time and living alone in her ranch style home.
I’ve been the girl in relationships that dragged on longer than they should have. I ignored the obvious signs; opting to fight for something that wasn’t worth fighting for.
Imagine the heartache we could save ourselves if we were able to recognize the signs sooner.
The guilt you feel when setting a boundary is not because the boundary itself is wrong, it’s because of all the deeper, limiting beliefs you have that tell you it’s wrong. That tell you it is selfish. That tell you it is uncaring. That tell you it is dismissive. That tell you it is cruel, or unloving. But the boundary isn’t any of those things. It’s not wrong to want to take care of yourself. It is not wrong to walk away from a love that only ever leaves you feeling unworthy, and trapped. It is not wrong to advocate for your heart. It is not wrong to stand up for yourself. It is not wrong.
Contrary to popular belief, Virgos aren’t against being in committed relationships. They just don’t want to waste their time- which means they are selective in who they invest their time in.
It had been a very bumpy ride, but I realized I was quite capable of building my own life with or without a man.
To be a single woman in your 30s is to receive a paradoxical message: It is simultaneously cast as empowering and courageous but also ultimately tragic.
No one said it would be easy to heal from past trauma, but it is extremely important to do anything you can.
When you have been disappointed by love, you learn that the only person you can truly depend on is yourself.
