If there’s one thing I know for sure, it’s this: Obstacles are inevitable; suffering is optional.
If you’re always in a group setting with your next-level-friend-to-be, try asking them to hang out alone. When you spend time one on one, you’re able to have less guarded conversations and get to know the other person better.
Humans experience everything differently. No two people have lived the same lives; no two people have felt the same suffering.
We may be fragile sometimes, but we are always strong.
I’m here to help you with that inevitable point in a break up that happens for all of us: romanticizing.
You deserve to be understood. You deserve to have all parts of you loved. You deserve relationships that surpass superficial boundaries.
Let’s stop letting our egos get in the way. Let’s stop acting like we don’t care when we do. Let’s stop pushing our emotions down and pretending they don’t exist.
I began to understand how pain manifests into diseases.
Like any blossoming of a great thing, this endeavor requires patience on your part—loving, tender patience for yourself on this path of self-discovery.
This journey isn’t about anyone else’s expectations but your own. This journey isn’t about anyone’s happiness but yours.