INFJs show a strong preference for quality time as their love language, followed closely by words of affirmation and physical touch.
Setting aside time to learn about you and participate in the activities that you enjoy is the INFJ’s main method of letting you know that you matter to them. As a type with extroverted feeling, the INFJ is also particularly receptive to verbal and physical displays of affection.
To love an INFJ, set aside time to get to know them! Participate in activities that they enjoy alongside them, taking a particular interest in talking to them about why they enjoy them. INFJs value quality conversation highly. As you get to know the INFJ better, don’t be shy to flatter them! Let them know exactly what you love about them and how much you appreciate having them in your life. They are also likely to appreciate hugs, touches and other physical displays of affection.
To recognize the INFJ’s love for you, be conscious of the time that they are setting aside to spend with you – this is their main method of expressing devotion. If the INFJ flatters or compliments you, take their words at face value – they have likely been thought out carefully and are meant sincerely. Lastly, accept and reciprocate your INFJ’s acts of physical affection! This type isn’t open to hugs or touches from just anyone, so if they’re being affectionate with you, it’s their way of saying ‘I love you.’