ESFPs displayed a preference for physical touch as their main love language, closely followed by quality time and words of affirmation.
As an Se dominant type, the ESFP’s desire for physical affection fits perfectly with their personality profile. They are highly sensual individuals, who experience life primarily through the lens of their five physical senses.
To love an ESFP, shower them with affection at every opportunity. Surprise them with a bear hug, a quick kiss, a morning spent cuddling in bed or a massage at the end of a long day. Don’t be shy to shower them with words of praise or affirmation as well – this type loves both giving and receiving compliments and enjoys hearing “I love you” on the regular. Lastly, take the time to indulge in the activities the ESFP enjoys most alongside them – your company is important to them and they enjoy sharing their time and energy with you.
To receive love from an ESFP, be open to giving and receiving regular acts of physical affection – this is their way of saying ‘I love you!’ Also recognize when they are setting aside time for you and joining you in the activities you enjoy – this is another way of them harmonizing with you. Last but not least, expect to hear them praise you and express their love for you verbally or through notes and texts – they love to remind you that they love you!