ENFJs were the only type to tie for their top two preferred love languages: Quality time weighing in at less than 1% more than words of affirmation. This type also showed a relative preference for physical touch.
Anyone who knows as ENFJ knows that they prioritize their loved ones incredibly highly. ENFJs are more than willing to set aside time for the people they care about, as well as to shower them with complimentary words.
To show love to an ENFJ, set aside time specifically to spend with them, participating in the activities they love to do. In equal measure, express your affection for them verbally – remind them on a regular basis how much you care for them and what exactly they bring to your life. This type responds well to positive affirmations of their importance to you. Many ENFJs are also quite comfortable expressing love physically – give them regular hugs to show your affection for them!
To recognize an ENFJ’s love for you, take particular notice as to whether or not they’re setting aside time to spend with you specifically. Because they love doing things in groups, an ENFJ who singles you out as someone they want to spend one-on-one time with is an ENFJ expressing their affection. ENFJs also appreciate emotional vulnerability in their loved ones – by opening up to them and talking to them about what’s going on with you, you’re letting the ENFJ love you in one of their favourite ways. Last but not least, never turn down a hug from an ENFJ! To them, physical affection is just another way of letting you know how great they think you are!