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The thing about closure is that you don’t really need it in the way you think you do. Oftentimes, it’s better to give yourself the closure you need, not to go after the closure you think you need.

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When you love someone, you feel butterflies in your stomach. You get nervous when they walk into the room and have trouble hiding your excitement to see them. But when you’re in love with someone, you’re comfortable around them.

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You need to pay close attention to your crush’s body language. If he’s sexually attracted to you, then there should be some subtle signs hinting at his interest. Here are some signs a guy is really turned on by you:

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Why do exes always come back, especially when you’re finally healing from the pain they brought you?

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“If they wronged you and say something like, ‘I’m such a terrible person, you should leave me.’ It’s them trying to force sympathy on them instead of genuinely apologizing to you. They’re not going to change if you stay.”

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When you’re with your person, you should feel at home. Like you can be yourself. Like there’s nothing you need to hide, no feelings you need to censor, no truths you need to deny.

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If you cheat on her and think it will only affect your relationship, you’re naive.

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You shouldn’t lock away your heart when you’ve found someone willing to handle it gently.

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Even if you don’t feel the same way as they do, their feelings are valid. Their voice deserves to be heard. 

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They will embrace who you are with all your quirks and imperfections.