Do you often engage in conversations with your narcissist that leave you feeling like you were talking to a brick wall – or worse, maybe leave you feeling like banging your head against a brick wall?
Love and relationships are all about risks and chances but I’m the type of person who plays for keeps.
I hope in the New Year, you quit lying to yourself about what you really want and find the courage to go after it.
I stumbled to the mirror attached to the back of my door. Saw something dripping out of my left ear. Blood? No. No, it wasn’t liquid. It was solid. Like a long, thick worm.
Maybe it’s not about attachment, maybe it’s about letting go. Maybe it’s not about finding someone to love but letting go of all the ones you loved before. Maybe it’s about redefining love and what it means to you or maybe it’s about letting go of all the remains of your heartbreak so you can love with all your heart again.
Aries: You need a house party to ring in the New Year. If no one is having a party, throw the party! There’s no reason to sit at home without a room full of your closest friends and their friends. The more the merrier, ring in the New Year right.
When you are loved in a way that allows you to be yourself fully you quite literally have more energy to invest in the relationship.
If you have to make a phone call or approach a store counter, you’ll rehearse what you have to say before you actually say it. You’ll repeat the words over and over in your head until you have them memorized. Until you’re ready to take on your role as ‘functional human being.’
This is for the girl with the sensitive soul. The one who is regarded as soft, but in her vulnerability is actually so strong.
“She said she was voting for Ben Carson. She called her father ‘Daddy’. She made me sit through an entire Joe Jonas song.”
If you care about me at all, you’ll let me find someone who can give what you can’t.
I can’t be your friend. Because it hurts to know where we were and that we may never be there again.
