Instead Of Asking Yourself Why They Left, Ask Yourself Why You Were So Desperate For Them To Stay

Whatever we miss most about a person who has left us is almost always the thing that we need to cultivate inside of ourselves.
Whatever we miss most about a person who has left us is almost always the thing that we need to cultivate inside of ourselves.
Appreciate his loyalty to family and friends, and his need to spend time without you in other relationships. Never compete for his affection with people who are important in his life.
The only timeline that you need to abide by is your own. If you fall in love, it will be at the right time for you. If you get married, it will be at the right time for you. There is no way to get the timing wrong – your timing is the right timing.
No one needs you to leave them a handwritten note to tell them they had a bad day at their job.
To be confident does not mean you will succeed, it means you have the ability to accept where you fall short.
She asks herself what could she be doing wrong when you pull her into your arms but don’t try to keep her there.
“The area was notoriously known for a gruesome murder that has still gone unsolved. While sitting there I noticed something shoot across the back of my car in my rear view mirror.”
“Textbook had them draw their ideal pet. A 10-year-old drew a human chained up in a cage, with an electric shock box attached to them with wires.”
The “could’ves” and “should’ves” eat away at us and our thoughts begin to move in circles. Could we have fought harder? Should we have stayed together?
As I say a goodbye to 2016, I will say goodbye to you too. You, the man who changed my life. You, the man who changed my heart. You, the man who showed me how to love.
I mean that I’m wary of being replaced. That I don’t think as highly of myself as I should. That I’m worried about you finding someone that gets you better than I do, that treats you better than I ever could.
There is no ex-girlfriend or any potential female interest in the picture. He makes it clear you’re the only girl he’s interested in.