What is actually stopping you from just dropping everything that you don’t want to do and following the fear instead?
Getting one extra hour of sleep a night is better for our happiness than a $60,000 raise
You think you don’t have enough friends.
We think that the point of relationship is to commit, but really, the point is to grow.
We think we want a partner, but what we really want is to feel love for ourselves, and not need someone else to keep injecting good feelings into our lives for us. We think we want to lose weight, but what we really want is to feel secure, and to love our bodies for how they are.
Ask yourself: “If I knew nobody would judge me, what would I stand for?”
Growing up, I was not very confident in myself. I was awkward (still am and own it!) and wasn’t comfortable in my own skin.
When you fall in love with someone you aren’t compatible with: Contrary to popular belief, it does happen. Your perfect match and the person you love do not always have to be synonymous.
Your brain can’t differentiate “good” from “bad,” it only knows “comfortable” and “uncomfortable.”
You gotta learn to love when you’re failing.… The embracing of that, the discomfort of failing in front of an audience, leads you to penetrate through the fear that blinds you. Fear is the mind killer.