Think of the person that makes you laugh like you’ve never heard a joke before. You hysterically explode with the most obnoxious snort known to mankind, but you don’t feel embarrassed in the slightest. You feel at ease.
Is our envisioned “best life” a story we tell ourselves comprised of what we think constitutes a happy life based on comparisons to other people or beliefs?
They’re not losses, they’re simply learning experiences.
At the end of the day, your mind, body and soul are the only things you literally live in, so why not make sure all three align fully with not only you, but also the people you allow in your life?