Caring less means winning many battles. But ultimately, losing the war.
As he turned to face my grandmother in preparation of administering her medication, he realized that his beloved wife had gently passed away in her sleep. It soon became clear to him that it was indeed her light that she left behind as her final message of love.
One of these days you’re bound to change your mind, and I’ll be fine, because I’m not in love with you. You can’t hurt me, because I’m not in love with you.
I’ve crushed and lusted and fallen and cared for. I’ve even loved someone myself. But at 25, I can’t say I’ve ever felt it. Reciprocated love.
You don’t stay with someone because of their potential. You stay with them because you would be completely content if they were to remain the way that they are for the rest of your lives.
You reassured me and told me to wait, and here I am, still waiting.
Even martyrs sometimes fight for the wrong cause.
This person is not obligated to spend the rest of their lives with you — in fact, they have the right to break off the relationship at any time… even tomorrow.
Until you come along, here are just a few things I wanted you to know.
I decided to do some research on how to tell if the dude you want to date is crazy or a keeper.