When You’re The Girl Who Runs Before Giving Love A Real Chance
Maybe it’s just that I can’t imagine anyone looking at me with love in their eyes because I feel like I’m the girl who wasn’t made to be loved.
Maybe it’s just that I can’t imagine anyone looking at me with love in their eyes because I feel like I’m the girl who wasn’t made to be loved.
So how do we know when dependence levels are healthy and we have attained that holy grail of all things – balance? How about when we are able to allow ourselves be supported without feeling excessively vulnerable?
Guys need to know that when they send super generic messages, women can tell they copied and pasted that exact message to lots of other women.
The whole notion of “unconditional familial love” was squashed the second it was time to get food. It was like everyone decided to behave like a Yelp Elite food critic when the time came to pick what restaurant you were going to for dinner.
I might not know what I’m doing, and I might not have everything figured out right now, but that’s the exact point of life. You don’t go on a rollercoaster just for a straight line path that never dips. You want all of the dips, drops and spins that it can offer you.
“Henry was a very secretive man, always kept to himself and never let anyone into his personal bubble. Being extremely heavy set, well above average height, and having some physical deformities, he always stayed in the back so he wouldn’t have to talk to anyone. The only time his customers would see him was very late at night when he left the shop, or if you asked for him.”
If you say you love me, and you say you’re going to be mine, I expect you to choose me every day.
If they’re not in an emotional space where they can handle further responsibilities, it might be a considerable wait before they’re ready to settle down
It only hurts when we give that love to the wrong person, when we convince ourselves that we can make someone reciprocate our feelings.
The things that this wrong guy told you to sweep you off your feet were true—he wasn’t making them up. He wasn’t lying to you about how special you are. But he did lose sight of how amazing you are, and how lucky he is to be with you, and he’ll kick himself for that someday.
I’ll be there whenever you need me; I’ll be there even for the times you don’t. I’ll be there because that’s what sisters do—and you won’t have to ask. Whenever you call, I’ll pick up the phone. I’ll share your laughs and your fears, your painful moments and best memories.
I hope karma visits you as a ghost of everyone you’ve ever hurt and everyone you didn’t confront. I hope karma doesn’t destroy all of you, I hope it destroys you piece by piece so you can feel the excruciating pain of each piece and remember who this piece belongs to.