‘Nice Guys’ From Hell: 49 Women Share Nightmare Stories From The Friend Zone

39. He ghosted on me and the kids (ages 6, 4, and 1) with my best friend.

“My high school boyfriend said all the right things, made me fall in love with him, made my family fall in love with him, married me, gave me the white picket fence house, three kids, typical American Dream. Everything was perfect. Or so I thought. Fast-forward six years…he ghosted on me and the kids (ages 6, 4, and 1) with my best friend. They’re now married and he signed away his parental rights to the kids. He just straight up dumped us all to start a new life with my (now ex) best friend. He sees the kids just often enough to open the wounds when they heal. He claims he’s a nice guy, but he had to follow his heart and she just didn’t want kids, even though she has one of her own.”


40. He’d constantly text me, make incredibly sexual comments and look at me like a piece of meat.

“I have a pretty horrific nice guy story. When I was 18 I worked in a kitchen as a sous-chef with a big group of friends I had known since childhood. I was in a relationship with my first love. I loved it. We got a new kitchen porter, who immediately expressed an elaborate crush on me. At first it was funny, he was over the top in a jokey way, but I never ever expressed and interest in him and turned him down repeatedly, which everyone found hilarious. It became a running joke at work and at first I didn’t mind.

Then he started to take things too far. He’d constantly text me, make incredibly sexual comments and look at me like a piece of meat, I couldn’t bend over to pick something up without him making a comment. He’d start to just hang around me all the time, following me when I was trying to get stuff done, telling me that my boyfriend wasn’t good for me. All of my ‘friends’ at work (all male, by the way) just laughed and encouraged it. I got really angry one night and told him sternly to fuck off. He said “challenge accepted”. I didn’t really bring it up with my manager because he was always there witnessing it anyway and found it funny too.

Then me and my boyfriend broke up, and he went full-on fucking stalker. He knew where I’d be in the evening and turn up at the same place acting like it was all a big joke and we were practically together I was just playing hard to get. He would literally pin me up against the fridge and try to kiss me, all the while laughing at our coworkers who laughed, too. Nobody seemed to be on my side that this was just fucking horrible behavior and that it actually hurt me, especially after my first brea up. Everyone told me to “just go for it”, and “he obviously really likes you”. Blurgh.

The peak (or trough) of this story is when we all went to the staff party. I avoided him like the plague, but rashes stick. My big brother, who knows all my coworkers too, turned up and I sighed with relief as he visibly backed off. We all got very drunk and he kept his distance. Then I went out into the garden and he followed me. He had me cornered into a wall just now straight pleading. I said no, for the thousandth time, and he stepped forward and grabbed my crotch. He rubbed it for a bit and then said “you like it just admit it” and that “we’d always had people rooting for us”. I was just pushing him and he pushed my knickers aside and just shoved his fingers in. I punched him then, and he just sort of giggled and ran away. When I came in he was giving my “friends” his fingers to smell and everyone was laughing and high fiving him. I went home cried myself to sleep and quit my job the next day. Everyone then thought I was a massive bitch for ‘toying with him’ by supposedly letting him finger me. Fuck him and fuck them. Thankfully I don’t know them anymore.”


More From Thought Catalog

  • http://foulkesgeorge.wordpress.com True George

    this is beyond nice guys it is sick guys

  • http://trv.getstaged.info/nice-guys-from-hell-49-women-share-nightmare-stories-from-the-friend-zone/ Nice Guys From Hell: 49 Women Share Nightmare Stories From The Friend Zone – trv
  • http://podcastersurvey.com/2016/08/21/nice-guys-from-hell-49-women-share-nightmare-stories-from-the-friend-zone/ Nice Guys From Hell: 49 Women Share Nightmare Stories From The Friend Zone – PodCastSurvey
  • https://buzzaffcart.wordpress.com/2016/12/17/nice-guys-from-hell-49-women-share-nightmare-stories-from-the-friend-zone/ ‘Nice Guys’ From Hell: 49 Women Share Nightmare Stories From The Friend Zone – Buzz AffCart

    […] Source Link […]

  • https://thoughtcatalog.com/caitlin-sommer/2017/10/how-to-spot-a-fuckboy-in-5-easy-steps/ How To Spot A Fuckboy In 5 Easy Steps | Thought Catalog

    […] the need to constantly voice that he is so laid back or so nice and friendly, he’s probably not. Nice Guys are people pleasers who lack integrity. Somewhere underneath his Nice Guy veneer is a person who […]

  • http://gamingbad.com/how-to-spot-a-fuckboy-in-5-easy-steps/ How To Spot A Fuckboy In 5 Easy Steps | Gaming Bad | Universe of Information

    […] voice that he’s so laid again or so good and pleasant, he’s in all probability not. Nice Guys are individuals pleasers who lack integrity. Someplace beneath his Good Man veneer is an individual […]

  • http://www.mo4ch.com/how-to-spot-a-fuckboy-in-5-easy-steps/ How To Spot A Fuckboy In 5 Easy Steps | Mo4ch News

    […] the need to constantly voice that he is so laid back or so nice and friendly, he’s probably not. Nice Guys are people pleasers who lack integrity. Somewhere underneath his Nice Guy veneer is a person who […]

  • http://www.go4viral.org/2017/10/25/how-to-spot-a-fuckboy-in-5-easy-steps/ How To Spot A Fuckboy In 5 Easy Steps – Go4Viral

    […] the need to constantly voice that he is so laid back or so nice and friendly, he’s probably not. Nice Guys are people pleasers who lack integrity. Somewhere underneath his Nice Guy veneer is a person who […]

  • http://paktimessports.club/2017/10/25/how-to-spot-a-fuckboy-in-5-easy-steps/ How To Spot A Fuckboy In 5 Straightforward Steps | Pak News

    […] voice that he’s so laid again or so good and pleasant, he’s in all probability not. Nice Guys are individuals pleasers who lack integrity. Someplace beneath his Good Man veneer is an individual […]

  • http://verandi.org/shocking/how-to-spot-a-fuckboy-in-5-easy-steps/ How To Spot A Fuckboy In 5 Easy Steps – Verandi

    […] the need to constantly voice that he is so laid back or so nice and friendly, he’s probably not. Nice Guys are people pleasers who lack integrity. Somewhere underneath his Nice Guy veneer is a person who […]

  • https://www.awsocute.com/how-to-spot-a-fuckboy-in-5-easy-steps/ How To Spot A Fuckboy In 5 Easy Steps - AwSoCute Top Stories On The Web

    […] the need to constantly voice that he is so laid back or so nice and friendly, he’s probably not. Nice Guys are people pleasers who lack integrity. Somewhere underneath his Nice Guy veneer is a person who […]

  • http://viralnewscamp.com/index.php/2017/10/25/how-to-spot-a-fuckboy-in-5-easy-steps/ How To Spot A Fuckboy In 5 Easy Steps – Viral News Camp

    […] to constantly articulate that he is so laid back or so nice and friendly, he’s possibly not. Nice Guys are parties pleasers who shortcoming unity. Somewhere underneath his Nice Guy veneer is a person […]

  • http://viralnewsbuddy.com/index.php/2017/10/25/how-to-spot-a-fuckboy-in-5-easy-steps/ How To Spot A Fuckboy In 5 Easy Steps – Viral News Buddy

    […] to constantly enunciate that he is so laid back or so nice and friendly, he’s perhaps not. Nice Guys are parties pleasers who paucity integrity. Somewhere underneath his Nice Guy veneer is a person […]

  • https://lrsuntimes.com/2017/10/26/how-to-spot-a-fuckboy-in-5-easy-steps/ How To Spot A Fuckboy In 5 Easy Steps | Little Rock Sun Times

    […] need to constantly voice that he is so laid back or so nice and friendly, he’s probably not. Nice Guys are people pleasers who lack integrity. Somewhere underneath his Nice Guy veneer is a person who […]

  • http://1stbreakingnews.com/index.php/2017/10/27/how-to-spot-a-fuckboy-in-5-easy-steps/ How To Spot A Fuckboy In 5 Easy Steps – 1st Breaking News

    […] need to constantly express that he is so laid back or so nice and friendly, he’s perhaps not. Nice Guys are people pleasers who paucity coherence. Somewhere underneath his Nice Guy veneer is a person who […]

  • https://viralnews4.co.network/how-to-spot-a-fuckboy-in-5-easy-steps/ How To Spot A Fuckboy In 5 Easy Steps | Travel and News

    […] need to constantly voice that he is so laid back or so nice and friendly, he’s probably not. Nice Guys are people pleasers who lack integrity. Somewhere underneath his Nice Guy veneer is a person who […]

  • http://thelatestonline.com/how-to-spot-a-fuckboy-in-5-easy-steps/ How To Spot A Fuckboy In 5 Easy Steps | The Latest Online

    […] need to constantly voice that he is so laid back or so nice and friendly, he’s probably not. Nice Guys are people pleasers who lack integrity. Somewhere underneath his Nice Guy veneer is a person who […]

  • http://viralnewscafe.com/index.php/2017/11/06/how-to-spot-a-fuckboy-in-5-easy-steps/ How To Spot A Fuckboy In 5 Easy Steps – Viral News Cafe

    […] need to constantly singer that he is so laid back or so nice and friendly, he’s maybe not. Nice Guys are beings pleasers who lack stability. Somewhere underneath his Nice Guy veneer is a person who […]

  • https://marketing-data.biz/advices/how-to-spot-a-fuckboy-in-5-easy-steps/ How To Spot A Fuckboy In 5 Easy Steps | MDB

    […] need to constantly voice that he is so laid back or so nice and friendly, he’s probably not. Nice Guys are people pleasers who lack integrity. Somewhere underneath his Nice Guy veneer is a person who […]

  • http://viralnews.blog/2017/11/06/how-to-spot-a-fuckboy-in-5-easy-steps/ How To Spot A Fuckboy In 5 Easy Steps | ViralNews.blog

    […] need to constantly voice that he is so laid back or so nice and friendly, he’s probably not. Nice Guys are people pleasers who absence integrity. Somewhere underneath his Nice Guy veneer is a person who […]

  • https://thoughtcatalog.com/callie-byrnes/2017/12/this-nice-guys-sexist-response-to-a-woman-who-wasnt-interested-in-him-is-everything-thats-wrong-with-modern-dating/ This ‘Nice Guy’s’ Sexist Response To A Woman Who Wasn’t Interested In Him Is Everything That’s Wrong With Modern Dating | Thought Catalog

    […] say that nice guys finish last, and I’m convinced the reason is that “nice guys” are rarely ever, well, nice. At least, not the ones who claim they are. My general life rule […]

  • http://viral.guugles.com/this-nice-guys-sexist-response-to-a-woman-who-wasnt-interested-in-him-is-everything-thats-wrong-with-modern-dating/ This ‘Nice Guy’s’ Sexist Response To A Woman Who Wasn’t Interested In Him Is Everything That’s Wrong With Modern Dating – Viral

    […] say that nice guys finish last, and I’m convinced the reason is that “nice guys” are rarely ever, well, nice. At least, not the ones who claim they are. My general life rule is […]

blog comments powered by Disqus