26. He was pretty sure I was the girl that his mom prayed for him to marry.
“Oh, man. In the summer between my sophomore and junior year of college, I came home and volunteered to help my parents’ church out because they were down a singer. The guy playing drums that Sunday asked for my number. He was kinda cute and seemed shy, so I said yes.
So we go out for coffee, he invites me to his house, and it’s early so I go with. It’s really awkward, but I felt bad for the guy because he wasn’t unattractive so he obviously just had really bad social skills. At his house, he introduces me to his parents, whom he lives with. He tells them “This is the one from church I told you about!”
Then after his parents go to bed, he tells me how his mom had been ‘praying for me to meet my wife at church,’ and then the next week he did!
He then drove me back to my car (Nothing happened, of course, I felt too awkward to even sit on the same couch as him after he accidentally told me).
I stopped talking to him after that, and he sent me some really sad messages about how we had such a good connection and yadda yadda yadda. I started dating someone not long after that and he sent me a message about how upset he was, because I obviously wasn’t “ready for a relationship” and how I had “lied to him,” which I never did. He then proceeded to block me on Facebook and Instagram. From time to time he’ll read me, and I will ignore him.
He didn’t get very harassing but that’s what I think of when I hear ‘nice guy.’
I’m a Christian, and I’m all for praying with your spouse, but this is TOO FAR to go on a first date. So crazy.”
27. He proceeded to act like a victim of ‘the friend zone’ and complain that she didn’t like ‘nice guys.’
“A friend of mine thought he was the ‘nice guy.’ He was pretty smitten with a girl he’d met on the school bus. Over the course of the school year my friend:
*Would lick his lips violently and bang on the table whenever he saw her from a distance
*Tell everyone around when she would wear yoga pants in the most obvious way possible (loudly saying ” look at her ass!”
*Routinely thrust his hips towards her whenever he stood behind her
*Get visibly aroused when she sat next to him on the bus
*Constantly go into her class for our photo class and take pictures of her cleavage/ass on the teacher’s camera and not even bother to wipe the SD card. Tried to get upskirt creep shots and got caught by the teacher
*Constantly tell us how he would masturbate thinking about her
*He stole someone else’s photo of her, made several copies of it in the dark room, and showed people one of the pictures encrusted in his cum, including a friend of the girl
*Called her a bitch behind her back when she wore jeans because “he couldn’t get a good look at her assets”
*Asked her to prom, and when she obviously said no, proceeded to act like a victim of “the friendzone” and complain that she didn’t like “nice guys.”