Lauren Jarvis-Gibson
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Be The Type Of Woman Who Doesn’t Need A Man
Be the type of woman who finds worth in herself without validation from other people. Be the type of woman who loves herself without needing love from anyone else. And be the type of woman who never chases someone who isn’t chasing her back.
20 Things Introverts Are Afraid To Say To Their Friends
“Don’t make me feel guilty for leaving a party early. It already takes strength for me to do that on my own with everyone staring at me.”
11 Things You Learn When You Leave A Toxic Friendship
Friendship is sacred. It’s not meant to make you feel small. It isn’t meant to make you feel stupid, or like you aren’t as beautiful as you are. Friendship is a vital part of anyone’s life, so choose wisely.
This Is Why She Blocked You
She blocked you because realized your love wasn’t true. That your heart wasn’t in it for the right reasons. And she couldn’t stand to see you, to hear you and to talk to you. She blocked you because she finally realized that you were toxic. That you were never what she needed or wanted.
This Is Why You Are Going To Miss Her
She could’ve been the one for you. Maybe she still is. Maybe she’s the girl that would’ve changed you. Maybe she’s the girl that would’ve let you love her, and maybe she’s the girl that would have never ever hurt you. But you were too damn proud for that kind of life. You were too damn hungry for more. You were too damn selfish that you couldn’t even see what was right in front of you.
There Will Always Be That One Person Who You Won’t Ever Forget
Don’t treat their leaving as a tragedy. Don’t treat their leaving as a thunderstorm that only rains down on you. Turn their leaving into a new beginning. Turn their leaving into starting over. Turn their leaving into new kinds of love and new kinds of magic.
A Reminder For When You Feel Like Your Life Is Going Nowhere
Seriously, if you had told me a year ago that I would be healthy and happy like I am today, I would’ve called you crazy. I would’ve slightly smiled and just shook my head sadly at you, not believing in my own happiness. Not believing in my own life. In my own talents.
Don’t Settle For Someone Who Already Left You Once Before
So don’t chase after them when they call you back. Don’t fill their loneliness up. Don’t fill your sadness up with their black heart. Don’t you dare settle for their half-hearted love that will only break you again and again.
I Hate To Break It To You, But Time Doesn’t Heal Everything
Although time will never erase your trauma, the holes in your heart, and the ashes in your lungs, it will eventually provide you with relief. That void will never be gone. That wound will never be gone. But one day you’ll be able to live with that hurt. You’ll be able to move on with that pain still inside of you.
I’m 24, But I Feel Like I’m Still In High School
I’m still all over the place, an anxiety-ridden brain that doesn’t know how to stop or slow down. I’m still so jumbled up and tense that my dreams won’t come true. That my accomplishments won’t matter. That I won’t find love again.
This Is Why She Will Never Give You A Second Chance
She’s smarter to ever run back to you when all you ever did was break her. She’s smarter to ever run back you, the boy who paper shredded her heart. The boy who chose to leave.
You Don’t Miss Your Ex, You Just Miss Being In Love
You don’t miss his hand. You just miss having a hand to hold. You don’t miss his lips. You just miss having lips to kiss. And you don’t miss the way he held you when you were hurting. You just miss having someone there for you.
The Real Reason You Aren’t Good Enough For Her
It’s not your fault. It’s not you. It’s just that, she’s the kind of woman who smiles at thunderstorms and laughs at lightening. You’re the kind of man who goes inside. She’s the kind of woman who runs into the rain, and you’re the kind of man who puts up his umbrella.
This Is Why She Is Going To Break Your Heart
You weren’t the one for her. The right one. The right person. But that doesn’t mean you won’t be the right person for someone else.
This Is How You Unlove Him
Wonder when it’s going to go away. This big black hole that has turned into your life. Wonder how people survive this. Wonder if you will die of a broken heart. Think about how that might be easier than living.
11 Signs Your Almost Relationship Won’t Turn Into Anything Else
You get anxious when this person doesn’t text back. Communication is already lacking with this person, but when you ask to hang out and they don’t reply for a week, you should start questioning the seriousness of this ‘relationship’.
10 Things That Happen When You Fall In Love With Your Career Instead Of A Person
Your goals drastically change. Now, you can focus on yourself and your success without anyone weighing you down. You become to driver of your own life.
This Is How You Let Him Go
Fill your glass up
with something bubbly
something happy
that takes away the empty.