50. When a breakup happens, be mature about it
“I have to change my number after every breakup. No joke. This is my sixth phone number.” It happens. Relationships don’t work sometimes and it ends in a breakup. When that happens, don’t be childish and go for low blows. Don’t ask why, don’t ask his friends why, don’t ask your friends why. Just accept it. Don’t have your friends call him and don’t call him from restricted numbers. Don’t throw how your ex was better in his face or how he could never satisfy you. No matter how immature he’s being to you, you don’t need to do the same because when you’re going back and forth with him, you’re just creating a bad break up when it could have just been a breakup.
51. You won’t always get closure
“I’m not going to kiss your booboos.” This one drives me insane. I see women trying to contact their ex because they want him to know how much he hurt her. He doesn’t care! Sometimes they’ll call and try to get in contact with him because they still want to know why he left her. Here’s the reason he left you. You’re obsessive! Sometimes you can’t get the closure you want and you need to learn to accept that. When you’re hurt by someone, you cut them from your life and try to move on. Stop going back to find out why he did what he did or what went wrong.
