Ladies, Being Too Nice Won’t Save You
Nice girls are the perfect prey for narcissistic people, both in relationships and workplaces. Narcissists often gaslight and push the blame for their own actions onto women they view as weak.
Nice girls are the perfect prey for narcissistic people, both in relationships and workplaces. Narcissists often gaslight and push the blame for their own actions onto women they view as weak.
I once saw a therapist who said my tattoos are an ugly way of trying to make myself special, and that they remind him of the iron stamps put on cows. While I was about to burst into tears, I stood up, kept myself composed, told him he’s an embarrassment to his profession and elegantly left.
When you surround yourself with endless optimism, you become more positive yourself.
Believe me when I tell you, there are wonderful men out there; I’ve seen them. The kind of men who will value you, whose only concern is your happiness. These men will look at you like you are magical. Like you possess the secrets to the world.
“I see this black, oozing mass creeping across the floor. It just kinda slithered across the brick, up the wall, pooled into a perfect circle in the middle of the room. Then, it stood up into this weird, elongated shadow person with spindly arms and no eyes.”
Sometimes getting a divorce is actually the only way to continue to live with integrity.
Avoidant/Dismissive Insecure Attachment: You are somewhat uncomfortable being close to others. You have difficulty in trusting people completely.
I knew that even though it is my nature to be an empath, I can learn to take more care of myself and establish clearer boundaries.
I don’t know what real love is. But I know what change is. I know what pain is. I’m a lonely soul but I’m remarkably complete at the same time.
Sometimes the thing you keep trying to fix about yourself isn’t meant to be fixed.
That’s the thing about getting too good at healing, getting too comfortable with only relying on yourself. It can build a fear of opening up and sharing a life, even if that’s all you really want.
Not being obsessed with Likes and Followers. Because being liked and getting friends on the internet won’t matter to you anymore.
I called it an almost relationship. My friends called it a booty call. I called it love. My friends called me crazy.
“I always remember the first door that closed behind me that didn’t have a handle.”
“Just so frustrating and emotionally draining as everything you do for them gets thrown back at you.”
“I’m a guy who’s dated a sizable number of women in open relationships/marriages. For every stable, open relationship with solid rules that are adhered to very well, there are 10 more trainwrecks in action.”