Becca Martin
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I Don’t Like Living Without You, But I’m Doing It
I don’t get how it was so easy for you to let me go, but maybe I just convinced myself that you cared way more about me than you really did because that’s how much I cared about you.
29 One-Sentence Reminders To Help You Dominate Your 20s
Learn to get comfortable with being uncomfortable, that’s where the growth happens.
Honestly, The Reason Your Life Sucks So Much Is Because Of You
You’re going to keep being fat unless you change the way you eat, just like your life is going to keep sucking unless you change the way you live.
10 Signs He Doesn’t Want To Date You (But Whatever –– You Don’t Need Him)
He only shows affection when it’s just the two of you. He does some cute shit and makes you laugh, but only in the privacy of the bedroom.
42 Signs You’re, Like, Basic AF
You love wine, like, you’d rather die than not drink wine.
Ladies, You Shouldn’t Settle For Attention When You Deserve To Be Valued
Instant gratification is something we all chase. It’s what makes us feel good in the moment, but it’s only instant. It’s not long lasting. It falls apart quickly and it leaves us alone again.
Modern Dating Has Me Screaming
Who knows if he meant what he said when he was drunk, who knows if that sex meant anything, who even knows if he’s talking to someone else?? Maybe you’re not the only girl he’s ‘talking to’ but you can’t ask because once again that makes you look fucking CRAZY.
You Don’t Need Him, You Never Did
You leave, you feel this sense of freedom, you feel happy, you feel like a weight has been lifted off of you. Then he comes back – like clockwork.
11 Things People Don’t Realize You’re Doing Because You Hate Yourself
You tell yourself over and over in your head that you’re not good enough the way you are; that just because someone might have done something better than you that you are worthless.
13 Women Reveal What Happened To Their Relationship After They Found Out Their BF Was Cheating
“I didn’t realize for over a year that he was cheating until someone nonchalantly told me and even, then I didn’t value myself enough to walk away for another year.”
20 Little Reminders To Help You Navigate Through Your 20s
Appreciate the sun rises, the people you meet on the road, the strangers who help you out when you’re struggling. Appreciate all the little things and it will make your life a lot more enjoyable when you choose to see the good.
Bye Boy — You Don’t Get To Come Back When It’s Convenient For You
You had your chance, you had plenty of chances for that matter and you just kept pushing and pushing her further away until she remembered how to walk on her own without you. And she did. She said goodbye and now you can’t accept the fact you lost the best thing in your life.
To The Girl Dating My Terrible Ex Boyfriend
He liked having control over me and when he couldn’t have that anymore, he liked to hurt me. And he will hurt you, too.
You Are A Strong Woman — You Don’t Need Him
But the truth is, he didn’t love you the way he should have. He took your love for granted because he’s selfish.
To All The Women Who Have Been Mistreated, But Not Defeated
He knew you deserved better but he didn’t want you to think that, so he manipulated you and hurt you to make you feel like you didn’t deserve anything.
14 Signs He’s Actually A Piece Of Crap
He is conniving enough that he can somehow always twist situations and turn his actions into your fault, even though he is clearly in the wrong and you did nothing.
When You Are Weak, I Will Be Strong
I will help you through the nights when you’re drowning in your thoughts and no matter how much you try you just can’t shut off the voices in your head. I will remind you that those voices aren’t real and that you’re so much stronger than they make you feel.
You’re Unhappy In Your Dead-End Relationship Because You Won’t Leave
Happiness isn’t promised dinners, it’s not the gifts or the flowers after a fight – that stuff isn’t happiness and you shouldn’t allow that temporary ‘happiness’ to be enough.