Amira Abdel-Fadil

It was a blessing and a curse, because while I had to deal with my everyday life like everyone else, my emotions were a really big hurdle to navigate.

The truth is, our lives are actually a lot about the messy moments, our not-so-proud moments, our darknesses, and the fight we fight every day to overcome them. So when people act like there is nothing happening in their lives because it just might be too ugly or straightforward or unflattering, we end up normalizing people who always tell you predictable things. 

I think perhaps love should be more pragmatic than that. It’s finding someone who wants to struggle with you because they choose to.

Love means vulnerability. Love means putting yourself out there.

They look at you and can’t comprehend how it’s possible that you are allowing this.

I would like you to know that there isn’t a day that passes by where your memory is not lingering at the back of my mind.

Despite the darkest things they see, some people will walk into your life and love those parts you think are unlovable.

 I hope that when someone comes to speak to you about their trauma and grievance, you try to be a safe space for their trembling voice.

I hope you fall in love with someone who makes you feel seen for the beautiful person that you are in and out.

Sometimes pain is unkind and I am sorry that you had to witness that. 

Check on them randomly.

Part of feeling lonely is always rooted in how we respond and treat ourselves.

I want you to promise yourself that, despite the darkest storms and the endless noise of your life, you are strong enough to live your life and enjoy it.

Having a relationship with God and communicating with him helps you transcend and look beyond yourself and those around you. It helps you look for guidance from that very source that originally connects us all. 

No matter how much you’ve been hurt, you can always heal and it’s often by opening your heart to the world again, by choosing to see the good and to be good.   

Romantic love has always had such a special place in my heart.

It takes courage to approach the unknown and all its risks. It takes courage to live the life that you want.