We don’t like to admit that our perceptions of the world aren’t perceptions at all; rather, they’re reflections of ourselves. Our eyes are not telescopes; we want to believe that we can see every last detail, every blade of grass, every breath – but, in fact, we do not.
“Take the initiative, but don’t push too hard. Accept that sometimes I need space to be in my own head. “
For a long time I dreaded going anywhere I knew people would ask me the question “What are you up to?” A college friend’s engagement party surrounded by former classmates I rarely see? Anxiety central.
Be willing to be a little unconventional in order to get our attention and keep us interested. For ENFPs, the usual just won’t do.
Try not to obsess over the right things to do and instead come from a place of confidence and realize that he does care about you and feel strongly for you. “The chase” isn’t about playing games, it’s about not letting a man determine your worth