Sleeping with him. You don’t have to have sex every single time you two hang out. He should be happy to see you and have a face-to-face conversation with you — even if that means he doesn’t get a glimpse of your body.
You aren’t perfect. And that shouldn’t be a deal breaker for him.
“The sex is best for me when it’s romantic. I need eye contact. I need neck kisses. I need I-love-yous. I can only orgasm with someone that I’m committed to. My mind and my body are intricately connected.”
All of your life, your parents complained about how you were too lazy and needed to get a job. But now they complain about how you’re always working and keep encouraging you to take a break and go out with your friends.
Have you ever cursed out your parents?
Understand that, no matter how well you treat her, she’s always going to have doubts. They’re never going to go away, because she’s been abandoned so many times. She’s gotten used to not being enough.
When you’re with a bad boy, who has dealt with more shit in a year than you ever have, you don’t feel the need to be perfect. You don’t feel guilty about your baggage. You can expose your dark side without worrying about being judged.
She doesn’t hate you. Not at all. She hates the situation. She hates the way things ended. Most of all, she hates that she still cares, even though she swears that she doesn’t.
You shouldn’t be thankful at night, when the day is behind you. You should be thankful in the morning, when the day is in front of you.
“My wife gets irrationally upset whenever I turn her down. She started crying once, because she thought that I wasn’t attracted to her anymore and that I was cheating on her. News flash: Guys aren’t always in the mood for sex. Most of the time we are. But not always.”