I can’t have this halfsies, this sort-of-love, this relationship without a relationship because it’s not real. I can’t act like I understand this whole ‘casual’ thing, like dating for mere fun and nothing else makes sense to me. Because it doesn’t at all.
Despite your lowkey highkey obsession with being in love, it’s a rarity that you meet people you really connect with.
He isn’t a jerk and he isn’t rude. He doesn’t promise you things or set any expectations. At the same time, he makes you feel happy, only to ignite expectations that can never be met.
Right when we first got married sex was alright. We did it pretty frequently, I guess. Not so much now though.
It was a mistake. Fuck abstinence. It’s the worst.
Truthfully, at the root of our cultural obsession with marriage, I smell fear and insecurity.
True, unadulterated intimacy will always be the produce of two people communicating heart-to-heart – not ego-to-ego.
Capricorn: Your best match is the person who challenges you to take the leap, who refuses to back down and let you ‘protect’ yourself by assuming that your relationship can only end in heartbreak. You feel most loved being around someone who loves you for you, but who isn’t afraid to tell you to ‘stop being an idiot’ or to ‘tell your brain to shut up’ when you start convincing yourself that this can’t possibly work.
