You are not your past and you certainly are not your future. Who you are today is far from perfect but also, exactly the person you are meant to be right in this moment.
Here’s to the girls who aren’t ready to settle just yet.
I think a part of me needed you to fight for me. To pick me. Choose me. Love me.
We have trivialized this word beyond understanding, using it for every little bump that we face in our lives.
It’s not that you don’t have emotions. You just don’t know how to handle them.
Every summer, for the past 6 years, you were in trouble.
I am wildly afraid that I’m not mentally capable of falling in love with someone again.
You break it off with him and never hear back. You realize he was never worth it anyways, and you’re not all that sad. Somehow, this guy made you miss your ex the most.
In a toxic relationship, we are all selfish human beings.
Remind yourself of the things you cherish in life to put the whole situation in perspective. If he is one of the things that make you happy, then let’s hope he realizes it before it’s too late.
Who wouldn’t want to know exactly what the other girl looks like, how old she is, how much better or worse off she is than I?
Whenever there’s cupcakes!
As expanding ideas of gender slowly seep into mainstream public consciousness, there are more and more prominent figures who are finding it safe to come out as nonbinary or gender nonconforming.
The guilt still weighs me down sometimes even though I know it’s insane.
So take this inability to allow anybody in, and add that to the culture where in a big city there are all these options.. it is an utter disaster.
There will always be a solution and if there’s none, then go find a way until it’s okay.
Vitamin K is used in the body for blood coagulation and circulation. If you’re seeing those dreaded dark eye circles- you might be skipping the greens that get you the most K for your cash!
There’s tons of choices really, but you do what is best for you at the situation you’re in and what would keep your mind at peace.
It’s okay to leave a secure situation to start over.
I woke up one day and I couldn’t even see you in my future, you faded and became a distant memory.
Truly creative people do not take to public mediums to belittle the work of other artists. They channel that energy into creating art. If you do not like something, you move past it. This is out of mutual respect and creative energy of another artist.
I took this interesting lesson from watching my cats’ behaviour for a day. They are always happy, because they live in the moment. Their biggest concern is where their next meal comes from, which is usually in their bowls same time everyday. Now I recognise as humans it is so hard to live like this, but think of it this way, that thing you’re worrying about? It’s not going to go away because you’re worrying about it.
Don’t fix me, she says, love me.
WOW, SERIOUSLY FUCK OLIVER!!!!
Some people think having an “emotional affair” is even worse than a physical affair. Some people don’t consider it cheating at all. Each star sign has a different style of doing things, so here’s how they’d emotionally cheat—if they were so inclined.
We joked around a lot in bed. I like to tease Sean and he comes right back. One thing that is always great about our sex is that we’re constantly laughing and playful. It’s that intimacy that I value even more than the sex. I think Sean must like me if he keeps coming back.
Why is it that so many of us think we’re not worthy of love?
Our minds have become so overwhelmed, so busy, and so distracted.
If you’ve struggled with meditation or just can’t find the time for it, these five unusual types of meditation may be able to help.
I wasn’t always so cruel to you. When you were young all I felt for you was love. Then you grew up. You got older and I learned that I was supposed to hate you. I felt a strange mix of pride and horror from the attention I got because of you.
Accounting: the perfect combination of critical thinking, not too much people interaction, and a lot of money that would make me an independent woman. There is only one problem with going to school for something that you never had any interest in: you lose all sight of any dreams you have.
“Remember to smile”, he said matter-of-factly. “People might think your heart is shattered.”
As long as you’re okay with your body, how you look, and what you do with it, that’s all that matters.
If you fall in love with every single thing you create along that path, you’re setting yourself up for panic. If there’s so much in you that thought it was right with all those versions, you will feel challenged time and again. When in fact people aren’t challenging you.
Don’t be quick to answer when you’re arguing with someone. Arguments happen and it’s in our nature to fight to win them. Even if you know you’re right, say what you’re thinking to yourself first before saying it out loud. It might change the way you want to let it out. And trust me, that changes everything.
Squats are one of the best exercises to garner results that tone the entire body, and they especially produce results if you do them daily. So, why not watch Netflix while you do squats in front of the TV?
The one rule we do follow is an important vow from our wedding. Among the promises we made that day was that we would be there for each other in sickness and in health. What we didn’t know is how little time we would have between “I do” and cancer.
Over a number of years I have interviewed a wagon load of people for positions, mainly for office jobs. You meet all kinds of interesting characters when you are trying to find your new favorite employee.
If you’re neurotic, chances are you regularly deal with your friends and family teasing you about it sometimes. When it’s an anxiety disorder, it can actually interfere with your relationships and at work.
Can you look at this thing on my back? What is that?
I drink. Hell, I love drinking. If that’s not your thing, there is no harm done. Rule number one, though? Don’t make bad comments about alcohol, my drinking habits, or anything else that has the potential to kill my vibe. Just don’t do it.
Do you sometimes feel stuck with hurt and you don’t know how to get beyond it? Discover what to do with hurt. Because sometimes it stays with us forever.
Loving yourself with high sensitivity means that you learn to deeply value your ability to perceive subtle energies – both positive and negative. It means that you deeply value your perception of people’s feelings and moods. It means that you deeply value your rich inner life, and how profoundly you are affected by art or music, and by the environment you are in.
So what can President 45 begin putting in the old Walkman to chill himself and the watching world out?
Lie there. Chat. Cuddle. Engage in a bit of foreplay. Whatever it is, just be with each other. You don’t need to always be doing stuff — you should be able to enjoy each other’s company while doing absolutely nothing.
If you’ve been single for a long time, you’ll be skilled at being independent. This means you’re well used to doing things by yourself at this stage. It means you won’t be relying on your partner for every single thing you do.
If your man doesn’t come to you with his problems, then he doesn’t see you as his support. And being each other’s support system is the whole reason why human beings partner up in the first place.
Calling it quits is easier when it was never love. Yet, even then many of us find it difficult to let go. It’s never more difficult, however, than when the person you’re considering giving up on is someone you did love.
Do you want to get the girl? Follow this advice.
I will always deal with depression and chronic panic disorder. It’s ingrained in who I am as a person, and there’s no way out. I will always only experience pieces of happiness.