There’s a difference between someone who loves the idea of you and someone who’s in love with you.
Self-love makes you a fast learner. You don’t stay in a toxic situation for a long time. You end things that are not working for you or not serving you well. You walk away from those who don’t know how to value or respect you. You don’t keep hurting yourself repeatedly by making the same mistakes. Self-love allows you to put a barrier between you and those who hurt you. Self-love doesn’t make you heartless but it makes you indifferent towards those who hurt you. It makes you put your mental and emotional well-being first.
It may take a while but what’s meant for you will not mistakenly be given to someone else. God doesn’t miss any targets.
Forgive yourself for allowing people to stay in your life longer than they needed to.
I’m sorry for not loving you enough. I’m sorry for always putting you through hell expecting you to be happy and calm.
It’s that time of the year again. The time where everything comes crashing down one after the other. The time where everything changes so rapidly and you can’t keep up.
I hope you don’t become another one of them. Another story of how I fooled myself, a reminder of my bad decisions another name to add to the list of people I don’t want to see again.
I thought love looked a lot like this; you meet someone who comes from a totally different world and you try to make it work. Even though their world drives you crazy.
There’s no room in my heart for any more confusion. I don’t know how to deal with confusing behavior anymore.
There’s tremendous strength in surrendering to God and the plans he has for you. There’s strength in believing that everything can crumble and it will still generate something beautiful, something meaningful, something that will change your life.