Brianna Wiest

If you want to change some part of your life, change the way you speak about other people who are already there.

Your life will not fall apart when you stop worrying, it will come together. Life is not happening to you, it’s a reflection of you.

This isn’t new. This isn’t novel. It’s just not the path of least resistance.

Most people do not want to be professional writers. They like the idea of being able to “do what they love,” and then when they have to write 5 articles a day on top of manuscripts and other projects, they suddenly don’t love it so much anymore.

It isn’t attraction that makes a relationship last. It isn’t common interests, a shared long-term vision, or even commitment.

If you are more afraid of your goals than you are inspired by them, you are not living up to your full potential.

In the words of Drake: the power of the mind is not a joke.

Romance is not what sustains a relationship, compatibility does. Best friendship does. Attraction does. The same long-term vision does.

Realizing that chasing perfection was not chasing happiness.

Nothing will motivate you like imagining the life you could have.

The classic relationship issue that an empath will face is the one they have with a narcissist – people who have a deep desire to help others are magnets for people who want to just receive their light, and not give anything back.

Colors stimulate our brains in different ways, and the way we respond to certain colors can say a lot about who we are.

You can be anything ≠ you have to be everything.

Find what makes you “flow.”

So many people think that reality not living up to their expectations is failure, but really, it is often a sign of success. Life shouldn’t look the way you once thought it would.

Going out of your way to check the social media feeds of people who you know will make you jealous or upset. Being subtly addicted to this “high.”

As a Capricorn, you thrive when you have a plan, a routine and a purpose. When you don’t have any one of those things (or you’re not clear about what they are) you end up doing an array of strange behavior, like trying new careers that are evidently wrong for you, dating people who don’t actually care about the relationship, or being obsessive about some topic that you could stand to let up on.

You are the one consuming, choosing and returning to these things. Nobody is holding a gun to your head.