Becca Martin

Who knows if he meant what he said when he was drunk, who knows if that sex meant anything, who even knows if he’s talking to someone else?? Maybe you’re not the only girl he’s ‘talking to’ but you can’t ask because once again that makes you look fucking CRAZY.

You leave, you feel this sense of freedom, you feel happy, you feel like a weight has been lifted off of you. Then he comes back – like clockwork.

You tell yourself over and over in your head that you’re not good enough the way you are; that just because someone might have done something better than you that you are worthless.

“I didn’t realize for over a year that he was cheating until someone nonchalantly told me and even, then I didn’t value myself enough to walk away for another year.”

Appreciate the sun rises, the people you meet on the road, the strangers who help you out when you’re struggling. Appreciate all the little things and it will make your life a lot more enjoyable when you choose to see the good.

You had your chance, you had plenty of chances for that matter and you just kept pushing and pushing her further away until she remembered how to walk on her own without you. And she did. She said goodbye and now you can’t accept the fact you lost the best thing in your life.

He liked having control over me and when he couldn’t have that anymore, he liked to hurt me. And he will hurt you, too.

But the truth is, he didn’t love you the way he should have. He took your love for granted because he’s selfish.

He knew you deserved better but he didn’t want you to think that, so he manipulated you and hurt you to make you feel like you didn’t deserve anything.

He is conniving enough that he can somehow always twist situations and turn his actions into your fault, even though he is clearly in the wrong and you did nothing.

I will help you through the nights when you’re drowning in your thoughts and no matter how much you try you just can’t shut off the voices in your head. I will remind you that those voices aren’t real and that you’re so much stronger than they make you feel.

Happiness isn’t promised dinners, it’s not the gifts or the flowers after a fight – that stuff isn’t happiness and you shouldn’t allow that temporary ‘happiness’ to be enough.