Becca Martin

I want to do all the things that fill my soul with passion, all the things that society looks down upon because it’s not “together” or “professional.” I want to do those things because those are the things that make me feel like life is worth living, so I’m not going to stop.

And there’s nothing wrong with going back in a moment of weakness only to light yourself on fire again because you can’t stand the thought of living without them.

You start to question everything. You start to wonder if you made the right decision, you start to wonder if you rushed into things or if you should have left in the first place.

Be alone until you find someone who talks about you and who talks you up to their friends, or family, or coworkers, or the homeless dude on the street corner – literally anyone. Be alone until you find someone who is proud as hell to show you off.

This girl will give you every piece of her soul, even the parts she hides away from the world. She will share her art with you that she creates in her most vulnerable form. She will fight for you with passion that is deep and unforgettable. She will create a whole new world with you that you’ll never be able to replicate without her.

Libra: September 23rd – October 22nd
Take a risk this summer by doing something you’ve always wanted to do. Ahem, SKYDIVING! Sign up and show up because it’s about to be an adrenaline overload.

Your time is too valuable for you to waste it being miserable.

That is the most important thing to remember – you will be okay again, without him.

You can’t force love, you can’t force relationships and you can’t force people to like you. If someone doesn’t appreciate you for who you are then they aren’t the right person for you anyway.

Be single! Spend time alone, get to know yourself, become confident in your own skin, take care of yourself for once and kick ass in your own life.

We use people that we think can help get us ahead. We become self-obsessed monsters and we don’t care who we hurt in the way as long as we’re satisfied.

Instead of acknowledging you’re the reason you’re stuck you blame other people.

You are only in your 20s once. You will never, ever get this time back. One day someone will wake up at their dead-end job still doing errands for their boss and realize “I wasted my life” – don’t be that guy.

I convince myself that I can suffer through discomfort just to make someone else a little more comfortable.

You don’t need someone to complete you, you don’t need someone to heal your heart, you don’t need someone to make your world turn because you can make your own world turn.

You hurt him in the process because you’re only worrying about yourself. You don’t care if you lead him on or break his heart as long as yours isn’t breaking, and that’s the problem.

We have to pull it together even when we want to break down. We have to smile even when we’re on the verge of tears. We have to act like everything is okay even when it isn’t.

My biggest fault is that I always see the best in people; I think I can change them and save them, even when they don’t need to be saved. I think I can be the one to unlock their heart but I can’t – there’s nothing special about me.