Anjana Rajbhandary

You know it is not love when you do not enrich each other’s lives or make each other a better person. Does having this person in your life enhance your life? Do you have shared values and priorities, which is a vital part of a long-lasting relationship? Because when you love someone, you respect their values and you have similar priorities in life.

Little by little, I showed you the ugliness inside me. I introduced you to my wounds that would never heal, hoping you would pull away. Instead you showed me your flaws too, but I just admired your beautiful heart.

Here’s how to finally get that seemingly effortless glow you’ve always wanted.

We spend too much time reading self help books and articles about what men like; what qualities men look for in a wife – most of which is a waste of time. Are you really trying to fit a check list? Most of those articles don’t even make sense.

He will show up when he says he will. He will be there when he says he will be. He will keep his word.

I felt more alone with you next to me than I did in an empty room.

“The physical presence is a necessary part of a relationship. As a guy, I think I can say the majority of guys know it doesn’t work.”

“I am really done with hook ups. I look for a good personality and the ability to compromise. Knowing that this whole thing is going somewhere makes her more than a hookup to me.”

Someday when you have a daughter, you will finally understand, because you will know what boys are capable of doing. You will do everything in your power to protect your little girl from everything you did to other girls.

I will commit myself to you even if it scares the hell out of me, even if I know it puts me in a vulnerable position where I can get hurt so easily, risking it all and hoping that you will never break me.

Meet someone who won’t make you question your thoughts and your feelings. Meet someone who makes you feel safe. Meet someone you are scared to lose every day, but someone who will never let you get lost. Meet someone who doesn’t make you question yourself. Meet someone who makes you realize the magic of living, because that is the whole point.

I stopped blaming other people for my unhappiness and for the things that did not go well in my life.

“Where is this headed?” Honey, if you have to ask yourself or your significant this question after dating for some time, the answer is “nowhere.”