1.“Someone who’s in touch with his feminine side. And doesn’t act like he’s never seen period blood.”
— Jolene, 21
2. “A guy who doesn’t expect me to be a ‘lady’ all the time is a fucking gem. If you can watch me thug out without commenting on what a ‘bro’ I am, we can hang.”
— Marcella, 23
3. “Confidence. Not the cocky kind, the assured kind.”
— Paulette, 22
4. “I like thoughtful people. People who take notice of you, even in the simplest way. Ex: Someone who sees you sniffling and just makes a conscious effort to get you a kleenex. I find it so attractive when a man pays attention.”
— Keisha, 26
5. “A sense of adventure, and a love for play.”
— Ella, 23
6. “Charm and wit! Gotta love a dude who can hold a conversation that goes beyond what our majors/hometowns are.”
— Noelle, 22
7. “Sweetness.”
— Harriet, 23
8. “Being a feminist ;)”
— Julia, 20
9. “Gimme a guy who loves to read, and I’m set.”
— Annabel, 25
10. “Having a wonderful relationship with his mother. A man who not only treats his mom with total love and respect, but also genuinely likes to hang out with her, is a keeper.”
— Mariel, 28
11. “Being kind to everyone, including waiters, homeless people, animals, and kids.”
— Willow, 25
12. “Not hesitating before giving his subway seat to a senior, a pregnant women, or a disabled person.”
— Siri, 23
13. “Showing respect to service workers is huge. If you’re a total dick to the person serving us our food, I’m not interested.”
— Cat, 25
14. “Being confident in his masculinity. If he can wear pink and get a MANicure (hehe) without obsessing over what those things might reflect about his sexuality, he can def make my panties drop.”
— Zeina, 21
15. “Remembering little things I say. And being great with kids.”
— Carlotta, 26