Maybe This Is Why We Want The One We Cannot Have
Just because you’ve been hurt before doesn’t mean you have to look for love in all the wrong places.
Just because you’ve been hurt before doesn’t mean you have to look for love in all the wrong places.
I never once heard you complain about the financial part of it. I can’t even begin to imagine how much money you put into buying all my equipment and paying for tournament fees and club dues, but I’m forever thankful you did it.
You’d marry them for the benefits and because you know you’re never going to find anyone who loves you as purely and authentically as they do. That’s the harsh reality of having someone so perfect in your life.
“Get angry in order to fully complete Kubler-Ross’ stages of grieving (DABDA). I think that’s one of the things INFJs couldn’t make themselves do.”
“Him and his brother went to every single Harry Potter movie midnight premiere together, like every single one. Even if they were living in different cities during the release date, one of them would travel to the other one so they could see it together. It was one of the strangest, sweetest things I’ve ever seen.”
I can’t say that this exercise is flawless or that it magically cured me of my jealousy. It’s not supposed to. It’s an exercise—a tool to use when envy appears.
Break your addiction to accomplishment for accomplishment’s sake. Get on your path of true purpose and don’t get distracted.
Given the choice between judging someone and trying to be understanding, you should at least try to opt for the latter.
I asked what was wrong and I will never forget how my heart sank and I felt like I couldn’t breathe when he whispered “there was someone under the bed.”
He can’t focus on you any longer, he’ll say, because at this time in his life he must be focusing on himself. On his projects. His “deals.”
“I feel like most girls don’t quite grasp how little society in general cares about the average man.”
They say time is a great healer. Well distance can be too. Traveling is a great way to separate yourself from the past and learn to let go of those memories.