The author A Gentle Reminder, Bianca Sparacino, explains the difference between possessive attachment/limerence and genuine love.

After countless prayers, tears, and inner work, you finally meet someone who feels like the answer. They appear suddenly—unexpected, almost otherworldly—at a moment when you’ve surrendered, found wholeness, and stopped…

Attachment often disguises itself as love, but it’s rooted in need and self-focus rather than compassion. Real love isn’t about filling a void — it’s about choosing someone and nurturing…

You might not want to read this… but you NEED to.

While it’s much easier to blame other people for everything that goes wrong… sometimes it’s us. Sometimes we’re the problem, we’re the toxic ones. Eek. There’s a truth no one…

One of the most frustrating and puzzling relationship issues is determining why the guys you want don’t seem to want you. Here is how it usually goes.

Because I am sometimes a walking cliché who struggles with controlling negative emotion, I found myself sitting at a bar on a Sunday afternoon with a shot and a beer…

Let’s talk about how our timing’s off. You see, we couldn’t have planned this out worse.

Not for a second will I let anyone think I’m leaving because I don’t love you.

Forget the butterflies and the intensity for a moment. Those feelings fade, no matter who you choose. What matters more is the life you’re building and who you’re building it…