Kim Quindlen

“I decided to audition for a musical in college even though I had ZERO experience in music/plays/theater/anything.”

No longer worrying about looking cute in front of each other while you’re eating.

Be comforted by change, not terrified of it.

Even through all the pain, you like the fact that you’d rather be uncomfortable and be moving towards growth than be comfortable and stagnant.

You let other people tell you why you could or couldn’t love yourself, forgetting that that permission belongs 100% to you and only you.

Stay single until falling in love means finding a partner, not a purpose.

Acts of Service: You are the opposite of empty words or broken promises – you are the person who does what they say they’re going to do. People trust you with their gut, and they know you are so real.

Quality Time: They want to be around you not because they can get some specific benefit from you, but simply because they care about you and they get so much joy from the two of you being together.

Acts of Service:

Don’t ever convince yourself that your love language isn’t romantic. Picking up flowers or bringing home chocolates is easy – but all of those gross, tedious, or boring things someone does for you? That is true, unshakeable, unaffected love.

You are constantly trying to be as self-aware as possible, even if that means addressing things about yourself that you don’t like or that you feel insecure about.

Aquarius: You’re willing to risk heartbreak. 

“Understand that there is a difference between the typical anxiety that a lot of Virgos feel about love, and then specific anxiety that comes from being with a person who just makes you feel stressed or unwanted or misunderstood.”