Karla Crisostomo

I hope they appreciate every part of you and fall in love with it even deeper every day, because what is more important for them is the beauty within than the tangibles.

The right relationship will not make you feel that you have settled for something less.

You always thought that your re-acceptance will wake them up to the realization that they shouldn’t have left you even for once. But it has ended up accustoming them, getting satisfaction from a recurring reconciliation.

I have drawn a blueprint for us. I might not be saying it yet, but my vision of me in the future always includes you.

You damage their feelings for you when you send mixed signals.

Start believing that you could have the best relationship after you have learned to be independent and completed yourself.

It’s being confident that we are capable of loving unconditionally without losing ourselves, because we do the same to ourselves. And so if they still choose to leave, it’s not really a total loss. 

It’s an ability that not everyone has. It is an intentional acquisition. A time-consuming, fervent practice. A decision-based ability that takes a heart.

Be brave enough to face the spikes of separation. Don’t dodge them.

Don’t ignore the situations wherein you’ve been taken for granted. Collect them and let its weight drift you away from the toxic relationship you’re defending.