Holly Riordan

You allow your trust and abandonment issues to get in your way of intimacy. You are always searching for an exit plan. You are always counting down until the worst case scenario.

Stop accepting the minimum amount from the people you pour all your effort into. 

You are strong for surviving this heartbreak — even if you still cry over missing him, even if you are still tempted to text him, even if you feel lost without him.

No matter how much effort you put in, it’s useless unless the other person puts in effort too.

Sending the same boring texts every single day without any variety.

It’s an important milestone when he turns to you for comfort, when he asks you for advice. That means your relationship is getting serious.

Some things shouldn’t have to be said aloud. She shouldn’t have to tell you she wants your attention. She shouldn’t have to tell you to put effort into the relationship.

Your family already considers him family. They already refer to him as your fiance or even your husband.

You don’t have to find the love of your life while you are in high school or college.

AQUARIUS: Stop procrastinating and take a shower, brush your teeth, change out of your pajamas.

We never became official because he ghosted me.

Sometimes, my anxiety makes me snap for ‘no reason.’

Overcome your fear of intimacy (and let someone into your heart).

Any selfie I post takes over ten tries to get right. Most of the time, the pictures will get deleted without getting posted.

If you speak up about how she needs to end the relationship, she gets mad at you. If you keep your mouth shut in order to avoid an argument, you feel like you are encouraging her bad behavior.

Stop putting yourself in situations where you are bound to get hurt.

LIBRA: You are kind. Generous. Soft hearted. 

I thought he wanted to date me because he texted me every single day.