This Is Why Girls With Soft Hearts Get Hurt Worse Than They Deserve

Girl with a soft heart
God & Man

Girls with soft hearts get taken advantage of because they are givers. If you text them, they will respond in two seconds. If you call them in the middle of the night, they will lose sleep to answer you. If you ask them for help, they will get in their car and drive to you, no matter what time the clock reads or how far away you are.

Once you wiggle your way into their heart, they will do anything for you. They will give you the shirt off their back. They will give you their last penny. They will give you more than they have to offer, because they care about you more than they care about themselves.

Girls with soft hearts get taken advantage of because they get attached easily. They don’t believe in casually talking to several people at once and then choosing the person they like the best. They only date one boy at a time. They put all of their energy, attention, and faith into that one person.

If a girl with a soft heart has been flirting with you, going out on dates with you, and even sleeping with you, then they are interested in creating something real with you. They are imagining a future with you. They don’t want you for one night. They hope that your love will last a lifetime.

Girls with soft hearts get taken advantage of because they are romantics. Little things mean a lot to them. If you have flowers delivered to their desk or cook them dinner for no reason at all, they will think about it for days. It will make them fall even deeper in love with you.

Instead of staying angry about all of the things you’ve done wrong, they will be distracted by all of the things you do right. They will focus on your positives. They will give you the benefit of the doubt.

Girls with soft hearts get taken advantage of because they see the best in people. Even if you are toxic, they will give you a million chances, one right after the other. And when you apologize to them, they will choose to believe you instead of doubting your authenticity. They will trust that you’re telling the truth, because that’s the kind of person they are.

They have a habit of getting hurt by the same person over and over again, because they believe that people can change. They believe that the future can be better than the past. They believe that love can overcome anything.

Girls with soft hearts get taken advantage of because they keep those hearts cracked wide open. They know that falling in love is a risk, but it’s one they are willing to take. They are willing to put up with years of hurt, with long lists of exes, if it means one day they will find their forever person. If it means that one day they will find the love that they deserved all along. TC mark

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