The truth is that you have to be honest and authentic before you can find someone with whom you are actually compatible.
The truth is that becoming is not glamorous. It is not fun. It requires diverging from the easy path, leaving the safe trajectory, risking everything, trying anything.
Slowly, over time, you’re going to see that life is always changing, and now, you’re ready to change with it.
I hope that when you realize you’re hiding behind your clothes instead of loving how they make you feel, you have the courage to pack them up and begin again.
The point is that navigating which relationships are right and which are wrong is not as straightforward of a task as it seems.
But what you don’t need to be more of is afraid.
You’re not exceptional for being mortal, or having to learn to coexist with others.
They mature quickly because being a self-sustaining adult is the ultimate freedom.
You either love this moment, or you lose it. That’s all.
Because there will always be love, no matter how tiny the fractal, how much or hurt or rage it is masked behind.