Instead of allowing their lives to be proof that what we want is possible, we instead deny that they could possibly have achieved that which we are so convinced we ourselves could never have.
It matters what the people in your close circle think.
There is nothing more important than knowing what you want in life, and there is almost nothing that is more difficult to figure out.
What they don’t tell you about healing is that it isn’t peaceful.
Instead of accepting the ways we think life did not work out, we have to be able to see what was at the core of our desire, and figure out a way to still give ourselves that experience now.
What’s holding you back more than anything is the self-belief that these things are true.
In the process, you’ll find yourself removing everything that they once built. Habits that served them, belongings that they loved.
There are many different types of love we experience in a lifetime. You know that the type of love you have for your parent isn’t the same you have for your partner.