You have to allow them to grow for themselves, be uncomfortable on their own, and figure it out autonomously. Nothing else will work.
Fluid intelligence is the opposite of crystallized intelligence, which is what it means to have acquired knowledge formally, and typically refers to the acquisition of specific information, like facts and figures.
The things we struggle with the most are the things we are here to master. The triggers are the guides.
When you’re with someone who operates with quieter mental and emotional warfare, you end up stuck without even understanding how you got there.
Sometimes, our feelings can betray us, and we can end up treating a teacher like a soulmate.
You spend more of your time worrying, ruminating and focusing on what you hope doesn’t happen than you do imagining, strategizing and planning for what you do.
Human behaviors are not random, and they are only confusing until you understand what’s driving them.
Ahimsa is a holistic approach to peacefulness that begins with your relationship to yourself. It means acting from a place of power and groundedness, rather than reactiveness and out-of-control emotion.
She isn’t different, she’s just being herself for the first time, and you aren’t used to it.
You are almost psychic in your ability to intuit what other people are thinking, feeling, or need in order to heal.