“Honestly, it was down to money. I knew I’d need to hire a dog walker for the middle of the day, and once I was financially comfortable enough to do that, it made so much more sense to finally get a pet.”
You are actually having an existential crisis right now. It’s in progress. You are questioning your entire existence. Nothing is okay.
But the reality of society is that it sooner or later reminds you that even if you don’t see yourself as these labels, they exist nonetheless. And like it or not, you will be inflicted with them.
The greatest irony is that most girls don’t even care if a guy has any of these supposed physical disadvantages; they just need to know that YOU don’t care either.
I couldn’t pinpoint the moment in time when I felt off. When we felt off. But it was persistent, like a constant jab in the rib reminding me that out interactions were off kilter. A subtle, yet lingering, notion that something wasn’t fitting together as it should.
Expect her not to need you, and not to believe in needing much of anything at all.
I have a bit of a confession to make: bearded guys make me weak in the knees.
They will be absolutely candid about everything they think is appropriate for you to know about them — until you touch the one topic that is off-limits, and you’re left feeling like you’re talking to a wall.
