I am tired of listening to people talking about abuse as though a victim must be of a certain sex, or provoking by looking and acting a certain way. Abuse is entirely gender neutral.
Just because they have left, it does not mean you are a bad person. Apologise to yourself for beating yourself up for their leaving. You deserve better from yourself.
I’ve recently been going through a period in my life where a lot of change has happened at once.
1. Every second of every minute you were with him, you thought of him as God, when he should have been seeing a Goddess in you too.
To my fake friends, thank you for showing me the value in understanding people for what they are. Thank you for taking all of my good qualities and turning them into something negative to fit your narrative.
Just because you are going through hell right now, doesn’t mean you will never ever smile again. Pain is purely temporary. Remember that before you give up and decide you will never be whole again.
Because you chose not to fight for her, she has found someone who would fight to the end of the earths for her.
Thousands of versions of me have littered the passage of my life as I shed skin after skin, lesson after lesson to become the person I honestly can say I am proud of.
Nobody tells you that losing a friend is as painful as losing a lover.
Stop worrying about seeming selfish, and do what you need to do to heal. Remember, no one can heal you but yourself.