That was absolutely nuts.
Gemini: Understand that being a good friend has two sides – it means being there for the people you care about, but also letting them be there for you. You are very good at being dependable and supportive, but you’re more reluctant to let your friends take care of you. Being okay with letting your friends look out for you is just as important as looking out for them – it works both ways.
They ask a lot of questions.
“Every time you remember something great about them and you start to miss them, counter it with something about them that really used to frustrate you or upset you or annoy you. There will be way more stuff than you expect.”
To feel like you’re suffocating from your own painful feelings, to feel like you’re never going to come back up to the surface – it means you are going through one of the most universal human experiences that has ever existed. And you’re getting stronger, tougher, and more empathetic because of it.
Gemini: You are constantly surprising them.
“She told me she had lost fifteen pounds and without meaning to I just looked at her and said ‘Oh’ and was visibly surprised, because it definitely did not look like that. Before you judge me for being an asshole, she left me for not making enough money. I’m a teacher.”
Pisces: Finally do something on your bucket list that you’ve consistently avoided out of fear. You’re a big dreamer, but you have a harder time allowing yourself to actually try things. Sign up for that creative writing class, learn how to surf, or just call up that old friend you’ve drifted away from. Give yourself permission to step outside of your comfort zone.
4. They nourish their brains with the things that they want to see.