Accept the fact your husband is going to find other people attractive! And accept the fact you’re also going to find other people attractive! People get crushes. They flirt. This doesn’t mean the end of your relationship. It just means you’re human.
Do you feel like you are giving 150% and they aren’t giving anything back? Do you find yourself questioning your actions, thinking you are being taken advantage of?
It’s not really that difficult to say, “I’m busy, lets talk later” instead of ignoring you.
1. This is one day out of the approximately 28, 470 days that you (the average person) will be alive. If this one is a casualty to bad circumstance, know that probability is on your side that you will have another good day.
And we never talk about these breakups, because we don’t think of them in the same way. We don’t analyze the loss in our lives the same way.
You met him months earlier. A meeting not significant enough to remember every detail, but enough to recall you had briefly spoken about a new album coming out by a band you both adored. You fall for him cautiously, maintaining your cold exterior for a couple days, maybe even a few weeks, before you start to crack.
Honestly, I don’t have time for someone and don’t even know if they would be cool with having to deal with Rich Woman being their girlfriend.
The world would be a better place if artists, entrepreneurs, executives and creative types got better at explaining and selling what they do. More great stuff would break through in this attention economy we live in.
You stayed in relationships too long or at a job that sucked just because you were too worried about the potential side effects. Now you’re so much more comfortable with letting go and seeing what the possibilities could be in the aftermath.
No one wants that naggy boyfriend or girlfriend that is attached to your hip 24/7. We already have four limbs and we don’t need anymore.
To me, there are few things sadder than girls who get irrationally angry and jealous when their boyfriend goes out with his guy friends, or insists on joining them and awkwardly chaperoning it.
I know very few people who have a lot of financial freedom, or who are even well-established in their careers, and yet, there they go. Getting married. Somehow paying for a wedding.
