You want to find people who’ve gone through similar intense life changes and have made it through to the other side. These are the people who will remind you that everything you’re doing is worth it. It’s also helpful to have a neutral party for support, who can assist you in examining your life and your choices objectively.
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There are a million excuses you can use for failing to achieve your fitness goals.
The longer I stuck to the fitness and nutrition goals I set for myself, the more clearly I saw what I was truly capable of through dedication.
Casually bring up that you have a terrible fear of flying and you’re worried because you’ll be going on 2 or 3 business trips to Europe over the next few months.
“My wife is 5’2″ and 108. The fattest woman I ever slept with was the same height and 160; I could get hard for a woman when I was 23 and ready to screw everything in sight, but it would be tough to do the same at 33.”
Dating someone who works long hours is challenging. You hardly get to see them, and when you do, they’re often tired, stressed, or totally brain dead. This can leave you feeling distant, and chances are, they’re too preoccupied to notice.
If he flat out tells you he isn’t sure he wants to be with you forever, well…he did you a favor.
It makes you wonder: How would I get out?