(March 21st to April 19th)
You’ll find love again when you bring the same amount of energy to your love life as you do every other part of your life. You’ve given up on love a bit simply because you haven’t had it in forever, but just because love feels like a long lost memory, doesn’t mean you should lose all hope. You have a never-ending supply of energy and enthusiasm, so start using it when the idea of finding love exhausts you.
(April 20th to May 21st)
You’ll find love again when you stop telling yourself you’ll be single forever. You’ve had it once, or at least something close to it, and you will have it again. Sometimes your pessimistic attitude towards love can affect the love you let in whether you’re aware of it or not. You’re basically self-sabotaging any chance you have at finding love again and it might be because you’re afraid of being hurt. Stop ruining love without even realizing it, and you will find it again.
(May 22nd to June 21st)
You’ll find love again when you stop putting so much pressure on yourself to find it. The amount of pressure you put on yourself to find love just makes you extremely nervous when any opportunity arises for you to have it. Even when you find someone you truly connect with, your nerves make you inconsistent. You cancel plans, you don’t keep communication easy and transparent, and then your inconsistencies scare them away. There’s no rush, and you don’t have to put so much pressure on yourself. Breathe. Not having love doesn’t have to make you feel so unsettled, and feeling unsettled certainly won’t help you let love in.
(June 22nd to July 22nd)
You’ll find love again when you begin to take more chances. Try new things, meet new people, go new places. Think of 2018 as the start to new beginnings. You like the feeling of comfort, who doesn’t? But comfort doesn’t help you grow, comfort doesn’t bring change. If you want to find love again it’s time to leave comfort behind.
(July 23rd to August 22nd)
You’ll find love again when you stop thinking that you’re the problem. In this case it is a good thing that the world doesn’t revolve around you. You’re not a terrible person because he didn’t text you back, you’re not ugly or weird or stupid because he didn’t ask you on a second date. Not everything has to do with you. Maybe he just went through a terrible break up and still loves his ex, maybe he just lost his grandmother and realized he needs to grieve before he can date. Realize that there is a world of possibilities, and step outside of yourself to realize that who you are is not the reason you don’t currently have romantic love in your life.
(August 23rd to September 22nd)
You’ll find love again when you stop overthinking everything. Begin to let go. Let go of everything holding you back from being who you really are, saying what you really want, and showing how you really feel. You’ve been censoring yourself for far too long because you’re scared of what everyone thinks about you, but you’re much harder on yourself than everyone else is.
(September 23rd to October 22nd)
You’ll find love again when you stop holding onto the grudges you have against the people who hurt you. You think you’re open to having new relationships and dating new people, but you’re unknowingly bringing the problems from your past into these ‘new’ experiences. 2018 should be the year of letting go for you.
(October 23rd to November 22nd)
You’ll find love again when you begin to trust that not everyone will hurt you. You’ve most likely been hurt before, but if someone proves they’re worthy of your trust, than give it to them. Sometimes people fall in love and sometimes they fall out of it, and most times it hurts, but you can’t be distrusting of someone who has only showed you the kind of love that you deserve just because an ex broke your heart at one point or another.
(November 23rd to December 21st)
You’ll find love again when you stop thinking that it will happen overnight. Love at first sight is pretty rare, sometimes love takes time, so don’t be afraid to take your time while finding it. Remember that love often grows, it doesn’t just happen. You don’t just wake up one day and magically realize that you love someone, and sometimes when that happens you realize it wasn’t real love anyway.
(December 22nd to January 20th)
You’ll find love again when you stop swearing it off altogether. You’re always expecting the worst, and those expectations give you the wrong idea of someone before you have a chance to really get to know them. Begin to give more chances to people who you think deserve them.
(January 21st to February 18th)
You’ll find love again when you stop trying to do everything on your own. Your independence is admirable, but it’s okay to feel lonely, and it’s certainly okay to admit it. It’s nice to feel content when you’re alone, but you’ve grown a little to used to it being just you. Share your life with others more often and you’ll find love again.
(February 19th to March 20th)
You’ll find love again when you realize it’s okay to expect effort in return when it’s something you give plenty of. You don’t have to give all of yourself and receive nothing. You’ll find love again when you understand that love is give and take, not just give.