Koty Neelis

Former senior staff writer and producer at Thought Catalog.

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Koty Neelis

16 Things To Know Before Dating An INFJ

Out of 16 different personality types INFJs make the rarest combination of people to exist, which means they’re often misunderstood and dating them can be a challenging adventure.

11 Secrets Of Successful Relationships

I recently had the pleasure of hanging out with several older couples at a friend’s anniversary party for her grandparents and we had a great conversation about what it takes to build and maintain a successful relationship over the years.…

And So It Goes

I think there’s something about detachment and loneliness that can feel both bad and good at the same time.

13 Signs You’re A Classic INFJ

2. Although people have an easy time connecting with you sometimes you can be a difficult person to really know. You value your privacy and often feel like you can only be your “true self” around those closest to you.

14 Beautiful Passages From Marina Keegan’s “The Opposite Of Loneliness” That Will Inspire You To Live A Happy, Positive, More Fulfilling Life

“It’s not quite love and it’s not quite community; it’s just this feeling that there are people, an abundance of people, who are in this together. Who are on your team. When the check is paid and you stay at the table. When it’s four A.M. and no one goes to bed. That night with the guitar. That night we can’t remember. That time we did, we went , we saw, we laughed, we felt. The hats.”

19 Of The Most Chilling Lines In Literature

“Without passion or haste, they shot their prisoners, who were forced to approach the trench one by one and offer their necks. Infants were tossed into the air and used as targets for the machine guns.”