Jordan Lueder

You don’t have to end up like your parents.

Don’t worry, I see you.

He doesn’t focus his attention on you when you’re together.

Then, you will want to change again.

ESTJ: Love will cause you to slow down and think about your significant other.

I understand that relationships take work, but this work should consist of compromise—not the compromise of your self-worth.

ENTJ: You should have learned that you don’t have to constantly be achieving success in order to be happy and the real joy in life is found in the littles things, like the smell of blooming flowers and the feeling of waves brushing up against your skin.

Know your worth and realize that you don’t need someone who doesn’t.

Not giving a damn about what other people think means to give a damn what you think. It means acknowledging your own feelings and placing worth on them, instead of wondering so much about what others feel—which you can never quite determine anyway.

If you even try to dull her flame, she will leave. If you attempt at domesticating her or intend on making her settle for something less than what she deserves, she will be lost.

Yes, there are plenty of fish in the sea, but imagine finding that one fish, out of those billions, you are able to build the most beautiful life with. I suggest you hold onto it.

You mistake it for love, because you have found comfort in knowing someone is just as destructive as you are. You mistake it for love, because you have not yet learned what love really is.