Heidi Priebe

So you’ve gone on a few dates, gotten to know the basic facts about each other, fooled around a little and generally had a good time. No problems dotting the horizon right? Wrong.

The ways in which you fought through pain.

It’s easy to shrug off missed chances as risks we were not ready to take. But when it comes down to it, are we ever fully prepared to take the big risks that present themselves to us? Are we ever going to be 100% prepared to make a change?

You know that friend who jumps on board with every crazy scheme and never misses one of your slam poetry readings? Probably a youngest child.

ENFP Outcome: Stays up for fourteen straight days in an attempt to complete first resolution and subsequently ends up creating fifteen more.

You’re never stressed.

ENFPs are fiercely individualistic. This type knows what they want out of their own lives and they aren’t interested in arguing with anyone who disagrees.

You deserve to be happy because you are alive. Not in the classic, cliché sense but in a core, biological fashion. You were built to use happiness as a tool to evaluate the world that surrounds you.

You resolve that unless the Universe drops someone directly into your lap, you will just die alone and be fine with it. Maybe you’ll even get a cat.

ENFPs are weirdos. The sooner you accept this, the easier things are going to be.

One day you’ll think back to the happier times you shared and feel struck by the contrast of how things are now. You’ll get the distinct feeling that someone you love has passed away.

The right people make you want to throw away the plans you originally had for one and follow them into the hazy, unknown future without a glance backwards.

They protect their loved ones to death.

Not all decisions are set in stone.

It will hurt in a completely and utterly different way than it hurt the first time, but it’s going to be pain all the same. It is a subtler pain. A refined pain.

Being a HUGE, UNSTOPPABLE FORCE of creativity and productivity… an hour before the deadline.

We all want to be the sole catalysts of change. We want to make drastic changes that leave big, gaping holes in our wake. We don’t want those holes filled in.

Adults will go to great lengths to avoid rejection. Children, on the other hand, know that it is only a part of succeeding.